Questions to ask yourself: What are you waiting for? Why are you allowing his negativity to bring you down?Do you feel sorry for him and want to “fix” his life? He tells you to wear his favorite color or certain types of clothing when going out on a date (or he buys you clothes to wear.) He tells you how and when to do everything.
He does not like you talking to other men – including your friend’s husbands or your brother’s friends.
He says that he wants you all to himself and does not like to share.
He may also be jealous of the time you spend with your family, friends or children. You have made plans for him to meet your family or friends a few times.
Your divorce is over and you are ready to get out there and start dating again.
You are both excited about the possibilities and terrified that you will find a loser.